Stop Training Like You're in Your 20s
Kelly White | OCT 17, 2025
I’ll be honest, for years I thought if I just kept taeching and training the way I did in my 20s, everything would fall into place. Long workouts, endless cardio, lifting without much of a plan. But as I hit my 40's and birthing 2 kiddos, my body made it very clear: that the old formula wasn’t working anymore.
If you’ve been stuck, plateauing, or feeling like your energy is constantly on empty, you are not alone. Many of us gaslight ourselves into thinking, “Well, maybe this is as good as it gets.” But I promise you, it’s not. You just need to train smarter, not harder, and make changes that suit this stage of life.
Hormones shift, recovery slows, and our priorities change. What worked before may now feel like spinning your wheels, hours in the gym, cardio-heavy routines, or half-hearted strength sessions that don’t actually move the needle.
Here’s the truth: if what you’re doing isn’t getting results, it’s time to do things differently. Habits like doing the same weights for months, coasting through sessions, or not having a plan can quietly hold you back, even when you're showing up. Change doesn’t always mean doing more — it means doing it better.
And here’s something we don’t talk about enough: as oestrogen drops during peri to post menopause, collagen production decreases too. That means our joints can feel stiffer, mobility declines, and we don’t bounce into movement the way we used to. Warm-ups that used to take 2 minutes now need a little more time and intention.
Mobility isn’t optional anymore — it’s protective. Longer, more intentional warm-ups improve circulation to the muscles and connective tissue, help prevent injury, and actually make strength training feel better. Think dynamic movements, breath work, and gentle joint prep before loading up your body.
One of the most effective ways to break through a plateau is progressive overload , the principle of gradually increasing challenge. Every 6–8 weeks, switch up your program. Record the weights you’re using and aim to slowly increase them over time. That might mean:
Adding an extra rep by week 4
Pushing a little heavier when you’re ready
Shortening rest periods
Focusing on form and full range of movement
Don’t just stop because you hit “12 reps.” Use a timer instead, for example, 40 seconds of work with 12–15 reps, or 30 seconds with 7–10 reps. The goal is to get close to muscle failure (safely), not to simply tick a box.
💡 Want a program to make this easier? My 15/15 Strength Challenge is designed for busy midlife women, with 15-minute strength workouts that follow these exact principles. Suitable for beginners too x
When time is short, compound lifts give you the best bang for your buck. What is a compound exercise? Well it is an exercise that uses more than one muscle, more a group of muscles working in synergy.
For example:
Squats
Lunges
Deadlifts
Rows (single arm or barbell)
Planks
Stick with a program for 6–8 weeks, track your progress every couple of weeks, and celebrate the wins. Even small strength gains add up to big results over time.
Here’s the liberating part: you don’t need marathon workouts. In fact, shorter, more focused training sessions are often better. Set a timer, get rid of any distractions so put your phone on aeroplane mode, be efficient and get it done. You’ll not only save time but actually see better results.
And yes, walking counts. Add incline walks, try interval walking so walking at a faster pace to a lampost then slower to the next and repeat, or simply go a little longer. It all builds strength and energy.
Protein matters. More muscle = more strength, energy, more calories burnt at rest and with that you build your confidence.
Mind-muscle connection. Slow down your reps, squeeze at the top, and stop letting momentum cheat you.
Accountability helps. A friend, a coach (me 😉), or even a group class can keep you on track.
Be consistent. Perfection isn’t required, but regular effort is.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, plateaued, or drained, please don’t settle for “this is as good as it gets.” You deserve to feel strong, confident, and energised in your body, at every stage of life.
Remember: it’s not about doing more, it’s about doing it smarter. Shorter workouts, intentional strength training, and steady progression will get you far better results than long, unfocused sessions ever could.
💪 Ready to take the guesswork out of your strength training? Join my 15/15 Strength Challenge for 15-minute, guided workouts designed specifically for busy midlife women. Let’s get stronger — smarter, not longer!

About Kelly:
Kelly is a Yoga Teacher, Advanced Fitness Instructor, and busy mum of two. After years of teaching high-intensity workouts, she found herself exhausted, anxious, and out of balance. Discovering yoga and mindful living transformed her approach to health, showing her that true strength comes from balance, not just intensity. Now, through Breatheasyoga, she helps women reset, recharge, and build sustainable well-being—mentally and physically. With a focus on movement, mindfulness, and self-care, Kelly creates a supportive space for women to thrive.
YOGA & FITNESS DISCLAIMER: Yoga and exercise provide significant benefits, but only you know your own body and limits. Like any exercise, please consult your health care professional with any questions or concerns before starting any exercise program. When participating in any exercise or exercise program, there is the possibility of physical injury. Not all exercises in our videos are suitable for all people. The creators of Breatheasyoga, which includes all videos, classes, programs, marketing materials, and all accompanying materials are not liable for any injury, accident, or health impairment befalling any viewer of these programs, or any individual utilising the techniques suggested in this video. Kelly White at Breatheasyoga is not a licensed medical care provider and represents that it has no expertise in diagnosing, examining, or treating medical conditions of any kind, or in determining the effect of any specific exercise on a medical condition. Kelly White at Breatheasyoga makes no representations or warranties with regard to the completeness of information on this website or any linked websites, classes, books, videos, apps, or other products represented herein.
Kelly White | OCT 17, 2025
Share this blog post